Some people are lucky enough to marry their best friend. On a breathtaking fall evening, Melissa and John became Mr. and Mrs. Kennedy in front of 80 of their closest family members and friends. The outdoor ceremony had guests facing the garden gazebo, with John and his ushers lined up awaiting the arrival of the women. As the bridesmaids made their way down the aisle, John remained facing forward; he had an agreement with his best man that he’d nudge him when Melissa was at the top of the aisle ready to walk towards him and become his wife. He turned to find his bride in a stunning one shoulder gown with ruching that travel down the bodice and flowed into a beautiful skirt and train; and in her hair was the slightest streak of purple, matching the deep color of her bridesmaids’ gowns. The couple exchanged their vows, and the groom more than happily kissed his bride. While the wedding party took photos with the beautiful garden flowers and sunset serving as the backdrop, guests enjoyed a cocktail hour. The eight person bridal party smiled for pictures with the newlyweds, offering hugs and congratulations up in between shots.
As the sun set, the guests moved inside to an intimate room of eight tables surrounding the dance floor, with the head tables at the front of the room. The centerpieces were created by the bride herself, while the table names were Melissa’s concession to her new husband- each table was named after a character in John’s favorite movie, Star Wars. The guests were seated and the bridal party was introduced- parents of the bride and groom, followed by groomsmen and bridesmaids. Then the music changed to the Star Wars theme song as husband and wife worked their way into their reception. Smiling from ear to ear, they turned into each other’s arms and swayed together to “Amazed” for their first dance. As the music ended, close friends of the bride and co-maids of honor, Jordan and Kristy, kicked off the speeches. They shared the microphone as they described how Melissa never thought this day would come. Their description of the love John and Melissa found in one another was incredibly touching. Next came the best man, Danny, who explained how the newlyweds truly knew each other better than anyone else did. It was apparent from the speeches how lucky these two were to find love with their best friend. The bride and groom toasted these words with their champagne flutes for the day- two glasses that when separate were lovely, but when place side by side formed a beautiful, completed heart. The symbolism was not lost on those looking on, as that was truly how it seemed to be with John and Melissa.
Dinner service began with a chilled fruit cup, followed by a house salad. After the first two dishes were served, the bride and groom ceremoniously cut into their cake; a simply stunning white frosted cake with cascading dark purple flowers down the side and a silver ‘K’ as the cake topper to symbolize their new life together as Kennedys. The cake was chocolate, with the middle layer having fresh strawberries, a favorite of the bride and her mother. The main course was then served as a family style meal, consisting of stuffed chicken breast, sliced sirloin, garlic mashed potatoes, green beans, cranberry sauce, and warm rolls. As the meal was enjoyed, the DJ dove into the task the bride had bestowed upon him; she had asked him to play the most challenging, involved game he knew to give away the centerpieces. What resulted was this- a series of dance offs among the tables in which the bride and groom eliminated guests one by one until the table’s best dancer was remaining and rewarded with the rights to the centerpiece.
It was then time for the dancing to begin and the guests knew exactly what was expected of them. The dance floor was full and laughter filled the air. John and Melissa bounced between the dance floor and tables, being sure to visit with each guest and express their happiness that they were there to share this day with them.
The traditions continued with the bouquet and garter tosses, in which John stole the show dancing to “I’m Too Sexy” with a routine that had the entire room laughing along. The dancing continued, with the man and woman of the hour spending time with all those important to them; Melissa could often be found embracing her mother and laughing with her father, while John was a frequent visitor at his parent’s table. The evening ended with the final dance to “I Don’t Want to Miss a Thing,” which truly summed up the entire night. Melissa and John were present during every second of their big day, enjoy every minute of it. They didn’t miss anything.
We were all lucky to take part in the beautiful celebration of their love. Lenzi’s is happy to say that we were the site for where the next chapter of their life began. John and Melissa, we wish you nothing but happiness, love, and the joy of being married to your best friend.